Lillian and I have been harrassed a few times about making babies quickly. We have our mission laid out clearly.
Meanwhile, traveling in Yunnan, we saw how common it is for women there to use baby carriers. The one in the picture is the most common type, but others are popular too - including another back version and the side sling.
Here in Shanghai, babies are usually with their grandparents, as many (most?) people consider that young parents should focus on their careers and making money for the future of the family. So the babies stay with their grandparents, usually throughout the day until mommy and daddy get off tired from work, but often away from them in another city for upwards of 3-4 years. It was relieving to see that in this part of China, the normalcy of parents bringing up their own children has not been disturbed. In fact, I frequently saw fathers carrying their children, sometimes in baby carriers! Yay!
Lillian and I bought two baby carriers - we mailed one to the US for my sister Charlotte, and kept one for our firstborn.
2023 is almost over – and I’ve had this blog for 20 years
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I know that there was a time when I could sit down and write, when the
words came freely and easily. It was so long ago. Small children, running a
business...
5 months ago